"You kick it like me, no exaggeration necessary
Livin revolutionary, nothin less than legendary
Gangsta shit hereditary, got it from my dad
Flow colder than February with extraordinary swag"
- T.I.
T.I. couldn't put it any better to describe the return of Dr. Leto. He's back with vengeance on the trail of spitting truth for those who can handle it. I'm sure there will be haters. Hell I'll tell you right now, there are haters. But it's alright, because when they hatin the player, they're just frustrated cuz they can't hold their own game. So why the comeback, it's been so long. Yeah, during my hiatus, I saw and felt things that added to the fuel of a comeback. Now, the transition is complete and it's time to share and open up to the world once again. It's no holds barred. Anything goes. Dr. Leto's posts will become a spark for discussions. Hell, I hope you come at me, it'll make things interesting.
Hmm... so what relationship topic will I talk about today? It'll be about how girls complain that there aren't any legit guys around them, when they are blind to see those that are actually right in front of their eyes. To continue off that thought, how girls say they know what they want in a guy, but in the end it becomes clear they really don't know at all.
First of all, the complaining about no guys being around. Sure you gotta vent sometimes, I understand that. But when it becomes constant and persistent, you gonna get a "shut the eff up". Girl please, wake up. I know your "girls" won't tell you to, you guys are suppose to stick together. Even if it's the right thing to do, they still might not do it. They might even lie to get your back. *Applause* that's great loyalty there. But last time I checked, you're eventually gonna have to marry a guy, unless you aren't into that sorta thing. Okay, so I'm getting feedback from the peanut gallery, "What are you talking about?!? We recognize that there are legit guys around us, it's just we don't see ourselves with him." Aight, that's cool that you can see it, maybe you're not so blind after all. I get the chemistry thing too. If I don't match up well with the talent, then she ain't on my level. Everyone does get their right to reject someone if they please. Remember this though, guys usually pursue after the girls, and if you're not getting pursued, then something might be up. Complaining probably won't help you there, but a little change could.
So what does a legit guy look like? Two words for you, Brian Choi. That man is so legit. Honestly, if we dissect the components of Brian, he has what it takes to be called legit. Some may say that he's too much of a hater, but we can overlook that fact. For you guys out there, I'm not saying you gotta try jock Brian's style, but listen up to see what makes him legit. Two things that makes a guy legit: Number 1 : He's ready to make a commitment. I'm telling you ladies, it's hard to find a guy who just wants to settle down with you and focus on the future together. You think guys have their eyes wandering and just leaving their options open, you're absolutely right, they do. But a legit guy has his eyes set on you and nobody else. It's no use complaining if you aren't ready to do that. This leads to Number 2: He's willing to compromise or make changes. Like how you girls love, "it's all about the little things". I feel, however, that it's also about progress. That you see him adapting because of the certain thing that bother you or you dislike. This isn't a one way street though. If you're not doing the same, then don't be surprised when you're dropped off at the curb.
So who doesn't want a legit guy? Funny thing is that most girls don't know what they want. Even if some legit guy had you in his sights, and the chemistry was there. He might just slip right through your fingers because of your indecisiveness, stupidity, your friends telling you what to do, etc. I had a conversation with a friend that went like this:
Friend: yea eff man, sucks to be a legit guy sometimes
me: i know, like you think that's what girls want. a legit guy, not just some nice guy, but a legit one
Friend: they don't know what they want
me: that's so true
Friend: they end up getting convinced by some guy who makes it his goal to get that girl instead of trying to find the right girl . Then he goes back to being his regular self and then the girl complains that he changed
And there you have it, the cycle of crap begins again. Girls will move on and complain about how they they have trust issues and all that jazz because they got done up by some douchebag and their inability to actually know what they want. Then they pass up on the legit guy due to their jadedness. I respect the girl that is trying to figure things out and not even thinking about boys in the process, but once they start talking about getting a man during that time. All respect is lost. The complaining will start up again because they think it's about the guy, but in the end, it's about them.
Livin revolutionary, nothin less than legendary
Gangsta shit hereditary, got it from my dad
Flow colder than February with extraordinary swag"
- T.I.
T.I. couldn't put it any better to describe the return of Dr. Leto. He's back with vengeance on the trail of spitting truth for those who can handle it. I'm sure there will be haters. Hell I'll tell you right now, there are haters. But it's alright, because when they hatin the player, they're just frustrated cuz they can't hold their own game. So why the comeback, it's been so long. Yeah, during my hiatus, I saw and felt things that added to the fuel of a comeback. Now, the transition is complete and it's time to share and open up to the world once again. It's no holds barred. Anything goes. Dr. Leto's posts will become a spark for discussions. Hell, I hope you come at me, it'll make things interesting.
Hmm... so what relationship topic will I talk about today? It'll be about how girls complain that there aren't any legit guys around them, when they are blind to see those that are actually right in front of their eyes. To continue off that thought, how girls say they know what they want in a guy, but in the end it becomes clear they really don't know at all.
First of all, the complaining about no guys being around. Sure you gotta vent sometimes, I understand that. But when it becomes constant and persistent, you gonna get a "shut the eff up". Girl please, wake up. I know your "girls" won't tell you to, you guys are suppose to stick together. Even if it's the right thing to do, they still might not do it. They might even lie to get your back. *Applause* that's great loyalty there. But last time I checked, you're eventually gonna have to marry a guy, unless you aren't into that sorta thing. Okay, so I'm getting feedback from the peanut gallery, "What are you talking about?!? We recognize that there are legit guys around us, it's just we don't see ourselves with him." Aight, that's cool that you can see it, maybe you're not so blind after all. I get the chemistry thing too. If I don't match up well with the talent, then she ain't on my level. Everyone does get their right to reject someone if they please. Remember this though, guys usually pursue after the girls, and if you're not getting pursued, then something might be up. Complaining probably won't help you there, but a little change could.
So what does a legit guy look like? Two words for you, Brian Choi. That man is so legit. Honestly, if we dissect the components of Brian, he has what it takes to be called legit. Some may say that he's too much of a hater, but we can overlook that fact. For you guys out there, I'm not saying you gotta try jock Brian's style, but listen up to see what makes him legit. Two things that makes a guy legit: Number 1 : He's ready to make a commitment. I'm telling you ladies, it's hard to find a guy who just wants to settle down with you and focus on the future together. You think guys have their eyes wandering and just leaving their options open, you're absolutely right, they do. But a legit guy has his eyes set on you and nobody else. It's no use complaining if you aren't ready to do that. This leads to Number 2: He's willing to compromise or make changes. Like how you girls love, "it's all about the little things". I feel, however, that it's also about progress. That you see him adapting because of the certain thing that bother you or you dislike. This isn't a one way street though. If you're not doing the same, then don't be surprised when you're dropped off at the curb.
So who doesn't want a legit guy? Funny thing is that most girls don't know what they want. Even if some legit guy had you in his sights, and the chemistry was there. He might just slip right through your fingers because of your indecisiveness, stupidity, your friends telling you what to do, etc. I had a conversation with a friend that went like this:
Friend: yea eff man, sucks to be a legit guy sometimes
me: i know, like you think that's what girls want. a legit guy, not just some nice guy, but a legit one
Friend: they don't know what they want
me: that's so true
Friend: they end up getting convinced by some guy who makes it his goal to get that girl instead of trying to find the right girl . Then he goes back to being his regular self and then the girl complains that he changed
And there you have it, the cycle of crap begins again. Girls will move on and complain about how they they have trust issues and all that jazz because they got done up by some douchebag and their inability to actually know what they want. Then they pass up on the legit guy due to their jadedness. I respect the girl that is trying to figure things out and not even thinking about boys in the process, but once they start talking about getting a man during that time. All respect is lost. The complaining will start up again because they think it's about the guy, but in the end, it's about them.
5 comments:
The return of Dr. Leto
I like it
damn! i want a piece of brian choi
i like the subtle shift of your language towards ebonics. it somehow seems to legitimize your reference to t.i.
but all things aside, yeah girls suck. must remember, though, that some environments are not conducive for chasing and being chased. cough...or lets say that some environments seem to shrink the balls and ovaries of individuals...cough
but then again, what fun would it be if girls and guys just matched up perfectly and so easily like...the puzzle pieces of a 2 piece puzzle. no...the crap should be conserved for the sake of material for bystander entertainment and gossip.
i like the flavor and ingredients of this post: repressed angst and its source, a man's yearning for love.
Interesting take Dr. Leto on the legitimacy of this guy named Brian Choi. I sure hope he is a fictional character, cause he sure makes the rest of us look bad.
Before we move on, your credentials for a doctorate's degree should be questioned...
Regardless, lets assume that your a legitimate doctor of love, then I would like to bring up a second question: Is love only a product of western imagination in its search for something that is greater, something that they hoped for but could not have found other than say the movies?? Additionally, is it merely a by product of boredom and luxury? Or is romantic love a deceptive trick that has been utilized to detract and distract the youth from the horrific truths of this world. I guess my question is, can love survive beyond ignorance?
This is what i see happening a lot now a days. A girl will give a guy some signals to pursue her, and when he does, she acts like she doesn't know what she wants. But what she does achieve out of it is an ego boost or status etc. You just barked up the wrong tree. Find a girl that will stick with you even when your down and out. If she doesn't, she isn't true anyways.
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